A Better Day Today......

Okay where do I start....This whole situation has been a nightmare from day one. The birth mother of this child NO one will ever know how evil she is, She lies and is so manipulative that I feel she is filled her body with demons. And I'm not saying that because I dislike her, I'm being serious. Even her own dad agrees. She needs alot of help. She told us some terrible stuff about Grace's paternal side of the family, And when they showed up here they were crying as hard as me because they felt so bad for my feelings. They weren't the way I pictured them from what I was told, And they defiantly didn't act the way she placed them. They came to visit Grace when she was 2 weeks old and they tried to take her then but Megan wouldn't let them. This is there niece, granddaughter and daughter. So do I blame them for wanting her, NO...Grace's aunt has been sending money to the BM all this time because she thought the baby was with the BM.
As weird as this may seem to alot of you that read our blog, I have the biggest sigh of peace about this. For the past two or three weeks I knew it was going to happen because as soon as the BF got word that the baby wasn't and hasn't been with the BM then he immediately said he wanted her, And he had every right in the book in the state of Florida to have her. We could have tried to open a DCF case on the father for abandonment, drug use, history of violence....But a couple of things Who knows if that stuff is true. The abandonment isn't true because as I found out Friday they have been sending the mom money. The drug use he admitted to being a heroin addict 2 years ago....The history of violence the only thing the cops could find was the bad checks he had written. So is he a bad person I HAVE NO IDEA...But I put myself in his shoes...And would I want a stranger to raise my daughter(even though it is a GREAT home) or would I want my daughter to be with me and my family.....DING DING DING...I would want her with my family, POINT BLANK.
So I'm sorry if alot of you don't understand, Did my family even love Grace, HELL yeah we love her, We will never stop loving her. But should we shut down our lives and sob for days over something we had NO control over. No I don't think so, We gave it to god and he does have plans for us, We may never see them but he does have something for us and we love him for that.

In loving Memory of our Sweet Angel Baby Grace

Dear Grace, You have left our home to live with your birth family. But don't think for one minute that you will be forgotten. We love you from here to the moon, and you will never be alone. Your Big sissy still looks for your car seat when we get in the truck and she still says Ummm Baby, and we have to tell her that you went home, and she doesn't understand now but she will when she is old enough...And I hope that your family tells you about us...So for now I have to say GOODNIGHT to you, and I hope all your dreams come true. We love you Little Miss Gracie Girl...Love forever your family The Reavers 2008

Memory in our Hearts January.2008-April.2008